Our Wedding Vows

My sweet readers –

Here I am finally breaking blog silence!! I hope to start blogging again regularly, as I truly do enjoy it. However, a break was necessary as we started getting close to the wedding and I was completely overwhelmed putting the finishing touches on our wedding that was happening in TX, while I was still in Arkansas… yes, it was crazy! However now as Kyle and I have been finding our married rhythm, I am slowly but surely brainstorming new blog posts to come. A recap of our wedding day is in the works, and will be here as soon as I get the pictures back from our photographer.

In the meantime, I have gotten many questions about the vows that Kyle and I wrote for our wedding. If you plan on getting married any time soon, I would highly recommend writing your own vows! Special words said on your most special day is truly a gift. I have already gone back many times, re-reading the vows Kyle wrote to me. Eventually we would like to get them professionally printed on a canvas to hang in our home as a daily reminder of our promises, but that’s still down the road.


Kyle’s Vows…

Jessica, you amaze me.

You are loving, kind, gentle, smart, and so many other good things that I can’t say them all. I am blessed that I get to spend the rest of my life alongside you.

I loved who you were when we met, I love who you are today, and I commit to loving whoever you become in the future. I promise to support you and encourage you in all of your endeavors, and I promise to be your best friend. I will be there for you for all of your successes and I will be there when things don’t go quite as planned. I promise to always listen to you and to respect your opinion, even if it is not what I want to hear.

Life is not always easy, and it is not always perfect, but there is no one else I would rather be with than you. I think Ben Rector said it best when he said, “Life is not the mountaintops, it is the walking in between and I like you walking next to me.” I cannot wait to start our adventure together and live life with you. Jessica, I love you.

Jessica’s Vows…


Marrying you is the greatest honor.

I have watched our love beat the odds –  we made it through high school, long distance (428 miles, to be exact) and 6 long, beautiful years of building upon the love of two fifteen year old kids who couldn’t stand to be apart. I loved 15 year old you – determined, kind, quiet, and discovering the man who you were destined to be. I loved 19 year old you – broken out of your shell, full of laughter, and forgiving. Now, I love 21 (almost 22) year old you – courageous, optimistic, humble, radiating joy, strong-hearted, God-fearing, open, patient, and everything that I can only hope to be. I can’t wait to love you at 26, 48, and 75. I promise to love you for who you have been, and for who you will become.

Kyle, I promise to respect you as my husband, and to give you my heart daily. I promise to adventure with you, seek Christ on a deeper level together, help you pursue your goals, and to always be your biggest fan. Thank you for reminding me that every day is an adventure. Thank you for being my protector, for loving every part of my soul and only holding me closer as you discover more of my heart.

My love for you, Kyle, is more than just a feeling of inloveness, it is an unwavering confidence that we are so much better together than we are apart, and that unconditional love is real.

Kyle, we have it. I  love you so much.”



My Maid-of-Honor, Maddy, pointed out how similar our vows are, in the theme of loving each other at every stage of life. We reflect on what we have promised one another regularly, in hope that we never take lightly the promises that we have made. I love having these words as a reminder of our commitment, and it is an honor to share them with all of y’all! We love y’all so much, our wedding day was beautiful and I can’t wait to share more with y’all soon!



Healthy Pumpkin Spice Lattes

Up to this point my blog has been focused on marriage, Jesus, and my random musings on it all. However, I am excited to start sharing another deep love that I have…. cooking! It is truly therapeutic to me. When I feel overwhelmed by school or wedding planning there is nothing that I love more than turning on music (currently obsessed with the Lumineers new album) and whipping out some banana bread or making a new soup. I give all the credit to my mom and Grandma for showing me the joy of making delicious food and sharing it with those you love. Some of my greatest memories are of cooking with those two women, and it is a memory I hope to share with my future kids.

I love experimenting with recipes in the kitchen and making healthy (or just slightly healthier) versions of ‘unhealthy’ foods. And today, I hit the jackpot. For all the Starbucks lovers out there, I am about to save you big $$$$$. I found a healthy, easy, and actually delicious homemade version of the pumpkin spice latte.

When I say easy, I truly mean easy.


4 cups of strong coffee (50% stronger than your usual)

5 cups milk (your preference, I went with 1%)

1/2 or 3/4 cup half and half (depending on your preference)

2 & 1/2 cups pumpkin puree

1/2 cup maple syrup

5 or 6 t. pumpkin pie spice (season to your preference)

1 t. vanilla extract

5 TB brown sugar (not necessary, but I found that I liked the added sweetness)

Then, mix it into your crock pot on high for two hours and you have it… an easy, healthier, and tasty version of your favorite Starbucks drink. You can also sprinkle a little cinnamon/brown sugar mixture to top off your mug. The recipe says that it serves 8, but I won’t tell if you drink it all yourself 😉

xxoo, Jessica

p.s. if you have extras, you can store in a pitcher in your fridge for a few days but I would advise not drinking cold, for this recipe it is much better served hot!

prayers on paper

Recently, I’ve come into the habit of journaling my prayers. Maybe it’s my inner English major coming out,  but there is just something special about writing out my deep, inner thoughts. I believe that we love a good God who listens to our prayers, even if it’s not how we might typically ‘pray’. Writing down my prayers helps me to focus on Jesus and to stay present. It also reminds me that Jesus is constantly working in my life. I can look back a few months and see what I was praying about, and how God has answered that prayer (in whatever way) today, even if it’s not the answer I was ‘hoping’ for. And then there are some things that I am still waiting on God’s answer for. But it reminds me that God is not deaf to our prayers. I just have to be patient.

All that to say, being engaged, I have taken care to carve out deliberate time to pray for mine and Kyle’s future marriage, and for Kyle as my future husband. In an attempt to be vulnerable, I am going to share one prayer I recently wrote out. There are many reasons why I want to share. Ultimately, I believe that to reach others we are called to be vulnerable. We are not called to fake perfect lives. We are called to admit that we are inherently flawed, but that we have a perfect God. I also know that sharing prayer can be scary. I mean, do any of y’all remember sitting in Sunday School and being called upon to pray? I don’t know what y’all did, but I would straight up panic. It’s scary to talk straight up from your heart. When that would happen to me, I would often give a generic prayer so that I wouldn’t have to be made uncomfortable, I wouldn’t have to be vulnerable. You don’t want to say the ‘wrong’ things. You don’t want to pray about the ‘wrong’ things. You don’t want to be judged.  But once again, we are not called to comfort as Christians – we are called to much more. And with Jesus, he doesn’t care how ‘fancy’ our prayers are, he just wants us to sit and talk with him, to acknowledge him, to thank him. He doesn’t want the perfect prayer, he just wants us to pray. img_7324


“Jesus, thank you for Kyle. Thank you for giving me a soon-to-be husband who knows my heart so well. He is someone who truly loves me more than he loves himself. When I look at Kyle, I am reminded of your faithfulness. I am reminded of the promises you make to your people. He is much more than I deserve most days. Something I love about Kyle is that he always reminds me that his love is unconditional. We might be arguing or upset with one another, but he always reminds me “Jessica – when I say ‘I love you,’ that is not only when times are good.” The love he shows me each day is a gift.

Jesus, I pray that Kyle is constantly reminded of how much love you have for him. I pray that he will turn to you first when times are hard. I pray that struggles in our life will strengthen him to be a stronger leader for our family, and for those around us. I know how hard it is to be a man in today’s world, there is pressure everywhere to be a certain ‘type’ of man. Constantly remind him of your will, Jesus, molding him into the man who you know he will become. I pray that as his (future) wife, I will always be reminded of the trust and respect I should have for him on a daily basis. I pray that as we live our lives, that we will run after you faster and faster until we fall into your arms at the end.

Jesus, I can’t wait to be his wife. The anticipation is insane. You know my heart, you know how deep my love runs for him. He will be the best husband for me.  And one day, he will exceed all expectations as a father. Jesus, thank you for loving me so much that I get to have Kyle. Thank you for loving Kyle. Thank you for changing his life as his Savior. I am literally pumped to do life with my best friend every day. I am the luckiest.”


Honestly, I am still jittery when I write my blog posts. It is HARD being open with everyone on the internet. It’s hard not knowing what others might be saying about what I post. No one wants to be laughed at or judged for what they think. But I am not called to comfort. I am called to live for Jesus, and to let his word saturate into every aspect of my life. So if I’m going to blog, you better believe that I’m going to blog about what Jesus has done for me.

I challenge everyone to show vulnerability in their lives this week. Whatever that may look like for you, there is no wrong answer.

xxoo, Jessica


Our Story

Hello again! I haven’t posted in almost three months. Between working and wedding planning, it’s been difficult to make time for the fun things, like blogging! Hopefully with this next semester coming, I’ll have more to update on. Yesterday (the 13th) was mine and Kyle’s SIX. YEAR. ANNIVERSARY. Like, I am in complete awe at the life we’ve had together, and how much life we have ahead of us. So in honor of our 6 year mark, and today being 5 months away from the wedding, I have decided to post the story of how we met & how Kyle proposed. You can also find this on our wedding website (theknot.com/us/meetthelanmons).

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Kyle & I first met in Sunday School, the middle of our 8th grade year. I had just moved from Weatherford, TX to Valley Mills, TX and we were visiting FBCVM for the first time. I never would have guessed that I would be meeting my future husband that very day!

We didn’t talk much that year, but when we entered 9th grade we had a math class together (which wasn’t a surprise because we both went to a very, very small high school.) We ended up sitting close and throughout the year we developed a growing friendship. He always helped me with homework, and I realized that I had a huge crush on the boy who was really, really good at math. Later we realized that during this year we both liked each other, but being high school freshman, we were too nervous to admit it!

The summer before 10th grade is when we developed our friendship to a deeper level. That summer we were in the same friend group, so we were spending time together almost every day. All summer long our group went to movies together, swam in the creeks, and attending our church’s youth camp. I got to see Kyle’s heart throughout the summer, and I am so grateful that God gave us that sweet, sweet time to become friends first. At the end of the summer we were finally able to tell each other how we felt, and on August 13th, 2010 our life together officially started. I know people say that on the wedding day is when a life with someone starts, but ours started a long, long time ago.

We continued to date all throughout high school – it was hard to find us apart! But we were (and continue to be) each other’s best friends. Even from an early point we both knew that we never wanted to be apart, and I continued to hear God’s voice telling me that Kyle was someone worth holding on to. So when we both neared the end of our senior year, we chose colleges. Kyle chose Baylor, and I chose Arkansas – 8 hours away. I couldn’t explain it, but I knew that Arkansas was where I needed to be. I was scared going so far away from my family and from Kyle, but God has done beautiful things through us both because of our obedience to his plan. Long distance is a hard reality, but we were both determined to make it work. By no means are we experts on long distance, but it has taught us to love and treasure the time we do have together more than ever before.

Kyle & I had come to a point in our relationship where marriage was something we deeply wanted. All throughout long distance we knew marriage was what we wanted, but throughout this past year we continued to talk about it and to pursue the idea on a real level – not just a fun future idea. I knew that we were going to be engaged at some point in the near future, but little did I know, Kyle had been planning the proposal starting in November 2015 when he bought my engagement ring.

This past February, Kyle had a trip planned to come to Fayetteville for the weekend, but I didn’t know anything like a proposal was going to happen, I just thought it was going to be a relatively normal weekend. He got to Fayetteville on a Friday night after his classes, and in the morning he took me to my all-time favorite breakfast place, Grandma’s House Cafe. It’s an adorably quirky diner nestled in the depths of the Ozark Mountains. We were so happy to be together, I think we laughed the entire hour that we were there! We looked out the windows upon the gorgeous mountains, and admired an older couple eating together. I remember talking about how one day, we would be just like them – old, married, and happy!

Later on that day after a bit of relaxing, we drove an hour and a half to Whitaker’s Point, a breathtaking lookout upon the mountains. Kyle & I both have a love for the outdoors, and we’ve both remarked on how close we feel close to God when we’re breathing in fresh mountain air and surrounded by His creations. We hiked to the lookout point, talking and pointing out the beauty of the evening. Little did I know that I was about to be proposed to!

Once at the top we stood, smiling and at complete peace. It was a moment I will truly treasure forever. We were hugging and watching the sunset as he began to tell me the kindest words that I will also, cherish forever. Kyle then got done on one knee, asked me to marry him, and I said YES! We were both laughing and hugging and completely overwhelmed with love for one another. Little did I know, he had invited a few of my dear friends and they popped out from the bushes with their cameras! From that point on the night was a whirlwind of joy from calling our families, going to dinner, and then enjoying a surprise engagement party!

Kyle is the most selfless, kind-hearted, Jesus loving man that I have ever met and I am so lucky that he chose me to be his wife. He serves me on a daily basis, and his heart towards the lost, broken, and sinful is something that I can only hope to have. We are excited to have the opportunity to spread the gospel of Jesus through our marriage, and to learn to love each other and God more than ever before!

Thank you to the family, friends, and loved ones that have poured into Kyle and I throughout the years. We are so grateful for y’all and cannot wait to celebrate together on our wedding day. More than anything, we are thankful for a God who pours out His perfect love onto us day after day. Marriage will truly be our greatest adventure.


Life Lately

As this semester wraps up, I have an abundance of joy swarming my heart. Not only am I down to only one semester of college left, but this summer is when I’ll start to get into ‘wedding mode’ and make detailed decisions for our big day(!!!) We’ve already decided on the ceremony and reception location,  a photographer, and our date (to name a few). Being engaged has gone by so quickly, and I want to pinch myself. Some days it’s hard to believe that this life is mine. To think of where my life is now brings me to my knees; seeing the perfection of God’s timing in our lives is stunning. A year ago, I didn’t know that I would be planning a wedding. And a year from now, my life will continue to change.  But man, change can be so good. I have made a home in Fayetteville, and the people I’ve met here have permanently impacted my life. It’s impossibly hard to think of leaving my loved friends, but there is so much good to come, so much unfathomable joy. I’m graduating, I’m getting married, and life is sweet.

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This is the first summer that I  won’t be taking classes at MCC. I was recently hired at Ridgewood, Waco’s country club, and plan on working a part-time job this summer. Kyle, on the other hand, is taking three summer classes. But between school and working, we’re excited to get the bulk of wedding planning done  before my last semester comes around. This summer will be non-stop busy, but my hope is that I find time to refresh, unwind, and spend time resting in the presence of Kyle and my family. Summer is the only time that me and Kyle get to see one another for more than a week or two. We both eagerly look forward to the days when we won’t be separated by state lines.

I can’t tell you how often friends have warned me of the dangers of wedding planning. “It’s all stressful”, or “You’ll fight over all the details”. I understand the reality of planning a huge event, but we have been actively praying for God to guide our hearts in the right direction. While I am thrilled to pick out flowers and cake flavors, God had quickly revealed to me how much more joy I can find by investing in the marriage itself, not just the wedding. I have almost finished Francais & Lisa Chan’s book, You and Me Forever: Marriage In Light of Eternity, and Kyle plans on reading it this summer. It’s an incredible book – it helps you learn to base your marriage on the gospel of Jesus Christ. I recommend it for anyone – teens, singles, engaged, recently married, or married for 50 years. It’s never to early, or late, to start understanding how your marriage can be used to bring ultimate glory to God. We still have so, so much to learn about being a couple, and this book taught me more than I can put into a blog post, so I recommend that you read it yourself. I’ll put an amazon link below for anyone who is interested, and I am always happy to share my copy!

So that’s life lately. We’re busy , and gearing up for summer time. I am excited to share more wedding details as they come along, and to continue focusing on building a strong marriage over the ‘perfect’ wedding. Thanks to all my loved ones for continuing to read, it’s a joy to update y’all on our lives & to get updates from y’all!

XO, Jessica

book link: http://www.amazon.com/You-Me-Forever-Marriage-Eternity/dp/0990351408

Here We Go

So, if you’ve read the title, you’ll notice that I’m not a Lanmon – yet. But, in 251 days (to be exact) I will be, and I am excited to document my journey along the way. God has already taught me so much through the season of being engaged and I am so grateful for this sweet time Kyle and I get together before being married.


There are a few reasons why I’ve started this blog. The main reason is that Kyle and I are going to be making huge life changes + decisions in the upcoming years. We’ll be graduating college, getting married, and starting jobs. I desired for there to be a way for loved ones to stay up to date on what’s happening in our corner of life, and a blog was the perfect solution. It’s a more intimate setting than Facebook, and I’ll be able to provide more details than I would with a Facebook status. I’m excited to share our life with y’all & the ways that God is working in us. I’m currently majoring in English (hence a love for writing) so I’m also excited to have a creative outlet to come to each week.

A while back I posted this online – how I want to live out our marriage.

“I want a marriage that looks less like the world and more like Christ”

“… It is such a sweet reminder of what can be accomplished in God’s kingdom when united. It’s a sweet reminder that marriage is for a lifetime. It’s a reminder that through marriage we can share & spread the gospel of grace & love in a way that we couldn’t before. I am so thankful for a man who loves me so deeply, but for a God who loves us even more.”

We aren’t perfect. We’re born as sinners who have inherited God’s grace as a result of following Him day after day.  We are flawed people, but our life is meant for Jesus, as well as our marriage. We believe marriage is a wonderful platform given by God to share His gospel, and we plan on using it to bring Him ultimate glory.

I’m so excited to give life to this blog & to dive deeper into what it means to be a follower of Jesus, a wife, and to constantly pursue the best version of myself. Thank you for reading, I hope you continue to go along this journey with us in the future!!

XO, Jessica